A few months ago, my husband and I got our wires crossed and needed to take one of our sons directly from baseball practice to soccer practice. We forgot his soccer gear. Joe called me and asked if I could go to his room, find his soccer cleats and shin guards and then rendezvous with them. Now, mind you, I do not often make an entrance to my boys’ room. I give them freedom to have their own space. But, to get the gear, I walked up the stairs, opened the bedroom door and almo